3. Not Eating
If a man is nice enough to take you out somewhere to eat for a date, then don’t sit there and not order anything. It is weird, awkward, and it will indeed drive him crazy. There are some women out there who seem to think that it is not attractive to eat in front of a man, and they don’t want to come off as a pig, so they either just order a salad, or they do not order anything at all. This tends to make the man, who is actually eating a full meal, feel awkward and no one likes awkwardness, especially on the first date. The bottom line is that everyone eats – literally everyone – so ordering something more than a salad is fine and ordering anything less is just silly. In fact, guys have even said that they like being with a girl who has a good appetite because then they feel more comfortable eating around you.
2. Talking About Having Kids
A first date is just that – the first date. It is the first time you are sitting down with this person and possibly the first time you are meeting them. Having kids is a big deal and it really is something that should only be discussed among couples that have been together for some time and it is something that can scare a lot of men away, especially if they are only dating. So bringing up the fact that you want to have kids while on the first date is a big mistake that can lead to you scaring him off before even getting the chance to know him. A lot of guys find talking about kids on the first date as somewhat of a red flag that the woman that they are dating is obsessive or too clingy to date. Kids are definitely a subject that you will want to shy away from for a while, but especially on the first date.
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