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I dated her for 8 years, took care of her, never had sex with her, after her MSc, she dumped me – Man shares story

I heard this story and almost cried my eyes off. Each time I get to hear some ladies say, “men are scum”, I seldom keep quiet because I have loads of stories and experiences which when shared will not only silence them but may change their mentality about the “men are scum phrase.” So, a friend visited my house days back, whilst gisting, he shared a story about a bosom friend of his, who almost committed suicide over the girl he dated.

We will use Mr. I as the boyfriend and Ms. I as the girlfriend. I will try as much as possible to cut the long story short.

According to him, Mr. I had been dating Ms. I since 2008, he was in the university then, 200 level to be precise, while she was about finishing secondary school. And like many young lovers, everything was good and going fine except the usual “childish mentality” from both parties of course.

Things kept blossoming, everything soft and nice. She got into the university, a private Nigerian university, fortunately for Mr. I, it wasn’t one of those universities where phones weren’t allowed, so they kept communicating and in fact, since the relationship gradually started maturing, their love kept shinning bright like a diamond.. So bright that other male chyker’s couldn’t approach Ms. I because almost everyone in campus knew she was “bae-gaged.” Yes, she was that proud of her bae then.

Mr. I never missed the opportunity of leaving his university to visit her every weekend, notwithstanding the distance.. Oh, I forgot to tell you, he schooled in far away East, while she schooled in the West. And the journey from his university to hers took him 7-8 hours by road and of course, he always used road except extreme cases where he decided to use flight.

Not only did he risk his life plying bad roads every weekend just to see bae, he also made sure he got stuffs for her, food stuffs and sometimes money (He took it upon himself to bring provisions and money two weekends out of four, monthly). Indeed, bae was balling, no wonder she was so bae-gaged!

And whenever they were on break, back to their respective homes (fortunately they both lived in Lagos), he was with her almost every other day. In fact, both parents knew they were dating. Yes, and they both approved of it. Indeed, Mr. I was happy, he had the acceptance of bae’s family members and of course, the heart of bae (So he thought).

A couple of times, when bae resumed a new semester and Mr. I was still home, boss-man will take it upon himself to fuel his car and drive his woman to her uni, not only that, sometimes took provisions to bae’s siblings’ schools too. Mr. I was in love, so he just wanted to make her family members love him more.. Every guy who has truly loved, will know this feeling.. 

“Mans” was usually broke in school because of bae, you know, bae schooled in a private university and lifestyle was more expensive there. Of course, to please bae and make her family know he was man enough, Mr. I usually soaked garri in his hostel whilst he sent the food stuffs given to him by his parents to his girl.. Love nwantiti right?

Fast forward to his graduation, he got a job which wasn’t well-paying like that, but always made sure 50% of his salary went to bae’s account. Yes a whole 50%.. (It was at this point I literally started tearing up. A tear dropped from my eye and I am certain my friend saw this. If only he knew that I was tearing up because I couldn’t really fathom how “mans” was so in love that he forgot there is a difference between a girlfriend and a wife). Worst still is, he hadn’t even engaged her yet! Oh my gosh!!!!

Well, love was still there (so he thought). All through the years of dating, spending, killing himself to please she and her family, he never for once had any sexual relation with her. Never for once, because she claimed to be a virgin. The best he ever got was a kiss.. A kiss bruh! 

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  1. Kelly Montana says

    Waiting you want make we do for you now

  2. Kelly Montana says

    Drop her number make I help you beg her to pick you up

  3. Princess Ejiro Galah says

    oyo is ur middle name

  4. Morgan Anyaso says

    Old fool

  5. Balogun Ayodele Rasheed says


  6. Alex Onekanma says

    She had graiduated from ur dating course and moved on to a married course….-#keepdating

  7. Aghomon Dare Kelvin says

    People see things differently. If it was me! I would be proud of myself

  8. Bukkie Olu-Kemi says

    She is d unfortunate one, every seed sown will bring forth harvest. Trust me, no good deed will go unrewarded. Someone much better than her will reward you bountifully.

  9. Amaka Darlington Nnamdi says

    Is it the sex u didn’t have with her or the money u spent on her is paining you which one…..

    Well take heart bro, some ladies naturally no like better thing

    1. Michael says

      Do u have brains at all ???

  10. Samuel Jones says

    You’re a foolish man, don’t you know that most women likes sex as food, what else would you expect her to do when you weren’t satisfying her emotional needs when she needed it and was unable to tell you about it verbally, but only depended on those subtle signals she was giving you, then instead of you to be a man about it, you chose to be a foolish child. For some women, money isn’t everything, you have to be a man to her in all areas to be able to keep the beast in her in a place.

  11. Chinonso Frank Izuogu says

    That’s exactly what I hate about woman. They will tell you no sex b4 marriage and you will accept that with the fear of God and after they will do there own. God is watching.

  12. Ojini Fabzinski Chibuzor says

    Let me remember what to write, I’ll be back

  13. Okotie Emmanuel Allen says

    She dumped u because she suspected that you are impotent for not touching her and I believe she was enjoying herself outside.

  14. Emmanuel Juan Uche says

    Na why she dump you, women like sex, they love guys who can read their mind

  15. Chinedu Emma Mba says

    Bros you forgot to do the needful, think another nigga has help you to excute your job

  16. Kenneth Ibe says
  17. Nyhira Ba says

    Why won’t she dump uu guy?? 8yrs noo sex?? Ur impotent smh

  18. Veronica Shoke says

    Eish sad

  19. Priscilla Pipi Magudu says

    She was not meant to be yours brother.i pray the good Lord to wipe away your tears

  20. Anthony Gabriel says

    Women like sex?which book be that?
    Abeg na so Nigerian women dey do…
    Poor set of deflated human beings
    Na scallywag wags them ..
    If I go talk now them go say I too hate Yoruba people

  21. Divine Joppa says

    Oww our women

  22. Osinakachi Paul says


  23. Osinakachi Paul says

    You guys forgot that she said no sex till marriage.And as a faithful guy he kept his not knowing after caring for her she will dump him.Hmm this one dont weak me i tell you.Just like what a lady did to me this month Hmm

  24. Israel King says

    We will judge your matter after 2019 election…. Let’s finish with buhari ist cos we’re tired of corruption he’s fighting we want to fight poverty

  25. Ngobless Lawrence says

    Am sorry to say something here. What you did was the right thing if is for the fear of God and His righteosness. thats great. But after she graduated, are you waiting for her to tell you will you marry me. Of no you are d one. I stil can talk of our culture whic is good though. She may be seeimg you from the good man that wants to help aspect

    1. Didi says

      Exactly!! What were u waiting 8 years to marry her (or even propose) for? Maybe she felt u were not serious

  26. Ngobless Lawrence says

    The word was created wit mouth

  27. Julie Watz says

    You are very stupid , you need to die and come back then get brain ? and get them pregnant ? I don’t like nonsense

  28. Kings Ben says

    It’s a pity, I feel I’m on that same track but don’t know what will be the outcome of mine , anyway I have already build up my mind to face her if she comes up with this kind of news one day , it’s painful but she will be the one who will regret at the end, one day she will wish there can be a come back, by then you should be with the right woman for yourself,
    Mistake you did was by putting all ur eggs in one basket, if you had option B , this wold not have hurt you in this way , for me I got a lot of option , if A fail , b c d …….. are there to take over, period,

  29. Oluwaseun Gabriel Ajayi says

    Never waste ur money on any woman until u marry them

  30. Sithembiso Kensho Kheswa says

    Need I say more?!

  31. Gift Odion says

    Story for d gods

  32. Sarah Ishaya says

    No vex brother jus move on

  33. S Willy Sunday says

    Mumu man

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  35. Seyi Oladimeji says

    I prove it with that’s it’s a false news. How’ll you date a woman for 8 years without having sex with her, pls prove me wrong,,,,, Oya brag it ????

  36. Holuwha Dremo says

    When u are impotent unko

  37. Mary Yohanna says

    Am looking forward for a guy that can even buy me tea items, stringy guys keep coming my way ?? I basically do everything for myself. But wait oooo what about the time u spend together? Is also a sacrifice u know. Seeing her beautiful face was enough to. Sry ko.

  38. Ibeawuchi Christy says

    Maybe two of you were not made to be one , God sent you into her life as a destiny helper. Be happy ,thank God for using you. Yours will come. Though it may be painful but you will understand it better by and by…

  39. Alfred Frank says

    Do you wanted dating her for 20 years before marry her?

  40. Manasseh Bitrus says

    They are all d same bros just 4get nd move on

  41. Ruth Ndubuisi says

    I wish to meet ur kind of man,i will adore that man.

  42. Opeyemi Gee Baller says

    Life goes on……she graduate from ur university of dating….. And she want master degree of marriage else where….. Guy take heart….more ladies will come ur way. Just be sincere and kick one in to ur house

  43. Ejinkeonye Kelly says

    This is super excited story…bravo for Nigerian or another this shit happen

  44. Nuruh Nandutu says

    Your the man

  45. Potential D First says

    You are a big fool

  46. Buga Gofwen says

    The good news is that you are better off without her. A girl who would leave you after 8 years without sex should tell you that she was probably sleeping with others during that time and still is. Move on and be grateful for the deliverance from a more devastating future heartbreak. Worship Him!

  47. Godstime Best Chygoz says

    She dumped you cause another guy was already getting the cookies while you busy acting holier than thou, perfect time to leave you cause you no longer relevant in her life.

  48. Oyetesu Bukunmi Deborah says

    Don’t worry God will reward you, you will have the best, but next time don’t enter one chance

  49. Victoria Ben says

    She was never yours

  50. Bosun Bamigbola says

    U’ve been fucking with d DEVIL with no condom stop piping opium

  51. Bosun Bamigbola says

    U’ve been fucking with d DEVIL with no condom stop pipe opium

  52. Odo Broni says

    This is bad tho but we can’t judge cos I know an orphan who had no one to take care of her so her guy took her in buh he was an abusing man ,she couldn’t leave him cos she had no one to pay her fees. when she finished her education and started working she became independent and left he says the lady is ungrateful buh he has forgotten that he brought it upon himself.

  53. Nwaoha Humble Ndubuisi says

    You killed your self for not having sex with her…
    My guy you are a big time pretender, how could you date a lady for 8 years with out having sex with her, forgotten that women love sex a lot.

  54. Patience John says

    What a sad story, most especially that number 2, 5??

  55. Bianca says

    Abegi , lets hear word ! This shii has happened to soo may women too . Sory to the guy oooo cuz he really does not deserve that but some guys just do . This has happened to someone i know ( a girl ) soo men too are harsh atleast she didnt refuse anything cuz she was never asked . Not good tho but she had to move on !

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