3. The excitement has fizzled out
Think about the most exciting and pleasurable sexual experience you’ve ever had. What made it so exciting?
I’ve never asked anyone this question and heard, “we were in bed having missionary sex like we always do.”
There’s usually some element of risk, danger or resistance that warns, ‘you really shouldn’t be doing this’. Experiences like this are not typical or vanilla, and won’t fit into the bounds of your routine.
So think about how you could incorporate more excitement into your sex life.
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