7. Play ‘have you ever’
No marriage should have secrets so start how you mean to go on.
Get all of those skeletons out now so that you are on the same level. Entering a marriage with a secret from the past still not shared is a big no no.
8. Have separate nights out
Compromise in marriage is important and you must ensure you get me time too.
So have those nights out with friends where you don’t take a plus one and check how you both handle it. If there are jealousies or insecurities to be sorted out, get them fixed before any commitments are made.