How do you communicate this attitude? Easy.
Three little words that make him open up.
Ok, I won’t kill you with suspense anymore. Here’s what will make a man feel safe enough for honesty with you … “I’m just curious.”
It can go like this.
“Are you seeing anyone right now? I’m just curious.”
“What kind of relationship are you looking for? I’m just curious.”
“What kind of woman do you most admire? I’m just curious.”
“Where do you see yourself in the next five years? I’m just curious.”
Using these three words not only lets a man know that you’ll be OK with whatever he tells you, but it also instantly conveys that you’re not needy or too aggressive, and that he can feel safe telling you just about anything.
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