Magic words that will make any man open up – You know you’re curious … There’s a certain attitude that inspires a man’s complete honesty with you—a mindset that can actually help you identify the right man and avoid Mr. Wrong as early in the dating process as possible, even before you meet in person for the first time. And if you’re in a relationship, it can help you get to the bottom of what he’s thinking and feeling, so you can know why he’s withdrawing, if he’s open to taking things to the “next level,” or what’s holding him back from fully committing to you.
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How you ask is everything.
It’s not that men are afraid of certain questions. It’s just that the WAY a woman asks those questions can make him feel defensive. If a woman warns, “You’re not seeing anyone else right now, are you?” it almost automatically invites dishonesty in a man—he’ll feel cornered and pressured.
In order to make him feel he is “safe” when he shares with you, you need what I call the ‘Anything is OK’ attitude.
Now, this doesn’t mean that anything is OK for a man to do, and that you’re supposed to accept anything he does and have no boundaries or limitations. The attitude is more like you thinking, Anything is OK for you to share with me, but I know what I will and will not tolerate in my life, and what I want. But you can tell me anything. I can handle it.
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