3. You’re not being authentic.
You may have some underlying beliefs that you’re not good enough, not lovable, not attractive, or other limiting ideas of yourself. These beliefs will sabotage you every time, because if you don’t feel good about who you are, you will hide your true self in relationships.
When you’re hiding your true self, how can someone fall in love with the “real” you?
Pretending to be someone you’re not might work to ignite a connection in a new relationship, but eventually, you may discover that the two of you are a mismatch for each other.
It takes courage to be authentic on a date when you’re seeking the approval of a stranger. Building your self-esteem and confidence is vital if you want to thrive in the dating world and find a relationship that lasts.
If you see any of these patterns at work in your relationships, I can help. I am a therapist and relationship coach with over 20 years of experience helping people find love in their lives. I can help you identify your sabotaging patterns that keep you single, and help you find a way to love yourself in the process.
Source: Yourtango
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