5. There’s a new definition of soulmate.
I prefer a wider definition of soulmates that allows for more than one shot at love. While 50 percent of couples stay together until death, the other half do not. It is no longer a given in our society. My radical suggestion is to consider that you may, in fact, have more than one soulmate.
From a spiritual perspective, experts say we come together in relationship because that is where the most life lessons occur. In essence, having more than one soulmate can mean you are learning on many levels.
Once you expand your definition of soulmates, the heartbreak of a broken relationship can be put into perspective. Plus — and this is huge — it gives you the freedom to love again and again.
I’m a big believer in love. For some it lasts a lifetime. For others, they get more than one chance at getting it right. If you can let go of the idea of love being about perfection, your chances of having love in your life increase exponentially.
Stop searching for your one perfect love and soulmate. Start seeking the right relationship for you with someone who is compatible, supportive, kind, loving, shares similar values, and wants what you want in a relationship. Now that is a recipe for long-term romantic success.
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