Searching for your soulmate – Here’s some food for thought. I’ve never been a big fan of this notion of soulmates, and after reading about a study onmarried couples who thought they were soulmates, my suspicions have been sadly confirmed.
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According to this social research conducted by Marist College in Poughkeepsie, New York, “soulmate” couples are at a higher risk for divorce (150 percent versus other couples) and subsequently disenchantment.
Two-thirds of Americans believe in the romantic magic of soulmates. Yet, if these couples are destined to be together in relationships that are “meant to be,” why did their marriages fail so devastatingly?
Here are five essential reasons I recommend you stop searching for your soulmate right now.
1. Intense passion is not sustainable.
The social research study shows that couples who consider themselves to be soulmates came together in a whirlwind of excitement and passion. Their happiness stems from intense physical chemistry that is most often impossible to sustain because this type of attraction tends to fade with time.
On the other hand, marriages formed between people who are caring and affectionate have a much greater chance of long-term wedded bliss. This kind of connection has endurance and can strengthen with time rather than fizzle.
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