1. They change the pace
When a man just wants the sex to be over, he has to create the illusion that he’s somehow found a way to build to his orgasm. From a practical standpoint, that means making it seem that his physical movements have reached some sort of climax. This normally involves a slow, gradual increase in his pelvic thrusts to send the message that “Oh yes, I’m almost there.”
If he cares about you, he’ll go for the slow burn, really trying to sell the idea that he’s worked his way up the orgasm ladder. If he’s frustrated and bored, he might just give you a few quick, irregular thrusts and unconvincingly declare “Oh my god, that took me my surprise…” (Don’t fall for it.)
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