2. You lack anatomical knowledge.
The basics of anal sex health and pleasure are really very easy to understand, but making mistakes is just as easy. Consequently, many people have had bad experiences with anal sex. Often they have had a partner who has tried to enter their ass without asking permission. That can be very painful. A body remembers that kind of pain.
Anal sex, when done properly, should not hurt. It might feel funny like you are pooping backward, but it should not hurt.
You must use lube because unlike the vagina, your butt is not self-lubricating. In other words, anal sex is different, and it takes a little more knowledge and preparation.
So study up, butt lovers. Start by reading Anal Health and Pleasure by Dr. Jack Morin. You’ll learn how to approach that tricky little ring of delightful muscles, the G-spot, and the prostate, as well as how to care for yourself and your lovers.
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