How to talk dirty to you guy – This is what he HOPES you’ll say. Saying that “men like dirty talk” is kind of like saying fish like water and college students are fond of beer. It feels a bit obvious, right? It doesn’t matter that there are studies that show how positively men respond to women talking dirty — it just feels like a universal truth. If you talk dirty to your man, chances are, he’s going to like it.
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But what exactly should you be whispering into his ear during foreplay? Choosing to engage in dirty talk is easy, but it’s much, much harder to know exactly what sort of dirty talk your man is going to love.
Does he want you to talk like a porn star? Like a scared virgin? Like a dominatrix? Should you be crass or coy? What combination of words is really going to turn him on?
If you’ve ever asked yourself those questions, fortunately, you’re not alone. People often go to the r/sex forum on Reddit when they need sexy relationship advice, even when it comes to figuring out the mechanics of how to talk dirty to your man.
The forum has a great post where a woman flat-out asks, “Men of Reddit who like dirty talk, what do you like to hear?” And some of the answers she received were fascinating.
So, if you’re looking to up your sexy talk game in the bedroom, here are several men (and one woman) talking about what men REALLY want to hear when you’re talking dirty to your man.
1. Know your dirty-talk type
There are two distinct types of dirty talk that I really like:
- Submissive: When I want to feel particularly Dom, I love it when my girlfriend acts really submissive. This includes stuff like using a whinier voice, and going for the whole Bambi-eyes thing, and saying stuff like “Have I been a bad girl?” or “What are you going to do to me now?”
- Aggressive: Sometimes I don’t want the Dom/Sub dynamic, and prefer the idea of two Doms “butting heads.” During these times, I like it when my GF challenges me (“I bet you couldn’t _____”) or antagonizes me (“What is that all you’ve got?”). For the more aggressive sessions, I want her to be as filthy and vile as possible, and to use the filthiest words she can.
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