2. When in doubt, tease with your dirty talk
The most important thing? Make sure you know your partner’s likes and dislikes as well as possible, try to keep a finger on the pulse. The better you know their kinks and mood the better you can react and turn them on. I hope I’m not patronising here, I’m so used to doing my thing I don’t really stop to think how other people go about their dirty talk.
Teasing is pretty much a guaranteed winner. Find something you know they want and play on it. Conversely how you respond to being teased is a great turn on. It really depends on the dynamic. “Oh God, I want it so much! Please give it to me! I can’t take any more teasing, please <insert sex act here>.”
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