A woman bemoaned her confusion over the life-altering decision she wishes to make regarding her marriage.
She explained how a boyfriend had gotten her pregnant, left when the child was just two weeks old, and she later met and wed a teacher.
Despite not being the child’s biological father, the woman said he takes care of the family and even purchased a home in the child’s name.
The issue is that her baby daddy, who left her to care for the child alone and later returned as a successful businessman, and they started having an affair.
She has become pregnant and believes her baby daddy is to blame. She claimed that he urged her to leave her husband so that they could get married, and she is giving it some serious thought because she has always loved him.
Her biggest problem is that she has no idea how to ask her husband, who has taken care of them for those nine years, for a divorce.
“My baby daddy ran away from me when my child was just 2 weeks old. He left me to take care for our child alone. I later met a man that loved me and my child like his own.
We got married and he managed to build a house in my child’s name. My child is 9 years old this year. My baby daddy reappeared out of the blue a few months ago and I’ve been sleeping with him.
As I write this I’m pregnant and I suspect he’s the father. He’s now a successful businessman and wants to be part of our child’s life. He also asked me to leave my husband so he can marry me. He showed me the ring he bought for me.
To be honest, I never stopped loving him. He’s my first real and I always prayed for him to come back. My problem is I don’t know how to tell my husband that I want a divorce.
He’s just a teacher but he took care of us all these years and has done tremendous things for us, I feel guilty because I don’t think I ever loved him his a good man and that is tearing me apart for the betrayal going on but am only human and can’t pretend anymore. Please don’t judge me sweet ladies. Aki I just need advice am in a dilemma.”