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I waited until my wedding night to lose my virginity and I wish I hadn’t..

I waited until my wedding night to lose my virginity and I wish I hadn’t.. theinfong.com 700x359

Once I got married, it would be my duty to fulfill my husband’s sexual needs. I was told over and over again, so many times I lost count, that if I remained pure, my marriage would be blessed by God and if I didn’t that it would fall apart and end in tragic divorce.

I believed it. Why wouldn’t I? I was young and these were people I trusted. Everyone knew I’d taken the virginity vow, of course. Gossip is the lifeblood of the Baptist Church. My parents were so proud of me for making such a spiritual decision. The church congregation applauded my righteousness.

 

For more than a decade, I wore my virginity like a badge of honor. My church encouraged me to do so, saying my testimony would inspire other young girls to follow suit. If the topic ever came up in conversation, I was happy to let people know that I had taken a pledge of purity.

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  1. guest says

    Didn't get the essence of the right up. ? cos of your unfortunate experience people should not abstain ? …. or …. ? you can abstain & be informed/prepared for it at the right time… you were simply ill prepared for it psychologically

  2. Darasimi says

    Because it does not work for u doesn’t mean it wouldn’t work 4 others….. u were made 2 believe DAT but u urslf didn’t acquire more knowledge…. am sure u were counsel b4 marriage . Well I doubt ur write up. Am a virgin, my sis z b4 marriage and she enjoyed it and z still enjoying it. #i rep_nosexbeforemarriage

    1. Otiaboh says

      God bless u , u knw i was once a church goer when i was 12 i mesup with girls but today i knw the trueth and am 19 now and well baptised i have made that plegde that i will never in my life have sex or anything sexual to myself ontil i will get marry to my wife ,and i believe God will give me and everyone out there the straight to met this plegde

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