3. When you’re the submissive, it’s your choice and yours alone
Nothing makes me angrier than people assuming that those who are into kink (andsubmissives in particular) must have been abused as children or just be generally perverted. This is as offensive to child sexual abuse survivors as it is to members of the kink community. Being a submissive is a choice. Making a choice for the benefit of your sex life and your emotional life is as powerful a statement as a person can make.
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