2. Face your fears of losing him.
You probably want to tell him “goodbye.” You probably dream of having the strength to call him out on his wish-washy behavior. But your fears of losing him get in your way. It’s time to think about the worst case scenario so you don’t end up with a self-fulfilling prophecy.
What would happen to you if you ended up losing him? Would you spiral into depression? Would you experience anxiety about being alone? It’s time to journal your feelings and fears. Once you face the reasons why you hold onto him, you can start to unclench the fist that you have around this man. Right now, he feels your white knuckles squeezing tight, and it scares him. Not to mention, your tight hold on him isn’t helping you.
You can’t control another person’s feelings, actions, or words. You can’t control the future. The more you try, the more angry, sad and hopeless you will feel.
But you can control your own personal development. You can control your self-confidence and level of happiness. You can control the type of love life you have and the kinds of bad behaviors you aren’t willing to tolerate.
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