2. There’s a TON of room for freaky experimentation.
If you’ve been with your regular partner for a while and you’ve chosen to have an affair with someone, more likely than not you’re going to engage in sexual behavior that may not be the norm for your regular relationship.
It’s pretty safe to say that a lot of affairs don’t last and many people do end up staying with the person they cheated on. So if you do something kinky or deviant in the bedroom, who’s going to know? If the affair is secret, then all your bedroom antics will likely be secret, too.
Having an affair is never a good choice. But those who have made that choice are likely lowering their inhibitions while spending time with their secret lover. Also, if you are meeting up somewhere with no distractions (such as kids), then you don’t have to worry about being quiet or locking the bedroom door.
There’s a feeling of freedom when you have a new partner that no one knows about. You’re in a bubble — free to do as you please without feeling embarrassed or weird.
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