3. Newness is a major turn-on.
Unfortunately, in long-term relationships, the sex can get stale and feel routine. In no way is having an affair the solution to this issue but the desire for something new is certainly a powerful catalyst. One of the more addicting aspects to an affair is that it’s a fresh start and a new sexual adventure.
That first kiss, that first sexual touch — these are things many people have not had in a while, especially if they’ve been with the same person for quite some time. A person can, in a sense, experience sexual activities in a new way just like in that first flush of a new relationship.
And this is exactly why people are so drawn to affairs. They give you that same burst of excitement you felt when you were first dating your significant other. What was once old is new again… but with someone else.
If the elements of an affair were not so tantalizing and addictive, we wouldn’t have so many marriages and long-term relationships destroyed by them. People are drawn to new experiences. But this doesn’t make an affair right and, in fact, over time the thrill of a new affair will eventually fade and other problems will begin to emerge.
Speaking from personal experience, you must be very careful not to let your senses and desires take control over your life and lead you away from where you need to be. Take my word for it.
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Source: Yourtango
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