3. You act out your apprehension.
You crave a man’s validation and acceptance, but your insecurities cause you to be jealous, anxious and mistrusting.
You constantly text him and call him. You drive by his house and you stalk him on Facebook. When he doesn’t call or text you back right away, you become uptight and fearful. You imagine that you did something to push him away, so you become suspicious of his activities and you doubt his commitment.
Solution: It’s time to reprogram your dating computer. You are the SELECTOR. He is the PURSUER.
A man’s job is to court you, woo you, impress you and convince you that he is the absolute best man for you. Your job is to be charming, receptive and appreciative of his pursuit. Bombarding a man with texting and phone calls is the surest way to push him away.
If you believe you ARE the prize, he will sense your confidence and self-worth and he will work double-time to win your favor.
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