5. You discount his hurtful behavior.
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Your love for him is blind, irrational and self-destructive. You’re bound to a man, whose dysfunctional behavior jells with your needy, co-dependent mindset.
You minimize and discount the oblivious — that he is self-absorbed, unreliable, deceitful, non-communicating and quick-tempered. You subconsciously (or knowingly) operate in denial, tolerating his bad behavior.
Solution: You deserve better. If you continually commit to men who make your heart ache and you are uncertain about your future with him — you need to get therapy so you can understand WHY you gravitate to men who mistreat you.
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